About me

My work is a unique blend of the methods of personal development that changed my own life, and allowed me to transform my shame and uncover the playful, divine powerhouse that was always inside me.

• Parts work: Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy purports that we all have a whole, healthy higher self and that self can be accessed by acknowledging and integrating the parts that formed in our systems to help us adapt and survive. IFS therapy taught me to experience myself as a system of parts that love me, and how to give those parts what they need to put down their pain and worry and stop sabotaging my plans. Those tools allowed me to enter the healing phase of my life. Though I’m not yet certified as an official IFS practitioner, this outlook fundamentally influences how I coach.

• Dark play: My extensive coaching with the Light Dark Institute showed me the healing power of embracing and loving my darkness without any agenda to change it. My mentors there taught me how to create sacred BDSM-adjacent containers that allow for parts to be expressed in play and for lightning rods of repressed truth to finally crack into consciousness.

• BDSM: When I finally started exploring my long-repressed submissive kinky desires, the physical experiences took me to another dimension where I experienced extraordinary emotional and spiritual transformation. I trained as a Professional Dominatrix so I could bring that healing to others. I believe that kink is an absolute treasure trove for healing and personal development because of how much it allows us to make our parts conscious through embodiment. And while my coaching work is a completely different container than my Pro Domme work, we will likely explore elements of BDSM in our Portal Play sessions.

• Manifesting and shadow work: I believe deeply that aligning ourselves to the frequency of our desires is the most powerful way to bring them about. But I was long frustrated by the fact that manifesting only sometimes worked in my life. The surface level teachings that “just thinking positively” is enough didn’t quite work for me. I found clarity in shadow work and the understanding that the strong magnets of our unintegrated parts are far more powerful than the positive measly thoughts we might muster consciously. My work actually provides a path to alignment by identifying and integrating the unconscious parts that are not yet aligned with those desires, and by creating the safety necessary to actually let ourselves explore the frequency of our desires so we can actually vibrate on it.

  
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